But Jesus calls us His Own. We have value and we can't disappoint Him when we trust. When we look at the standard God sets, an honest assessment of ourselves reveals that we aren't perfect and are in need of a savior.
No matter how we see ourselves, God's opinion is the one that matters. When we seek Him and find Jesus, we are given Honesty, Love and Peace. The identity we have in Christ is true and invaluable.
You can have the same.