(still an all time favorite picture)
Do these two look familiar?
This is Captain (cat) and Coco (dog). (and my hand)
Despite the striking resemblances, it's not the same dog and it's not the same cat. Yet the confusion is understandable.
If I gave Coco to Oliver's owners, they would notice they didn't have their one true dog. If Meow was left here and Captain was in a stranger's car, it wouldn't take long before it became clear the wrong cat was in the wrong place.
In the book of James, we are warned not to be double minded. Double mindedness connotes a person who compromises, unstable, and "serving two masters." In other words, not only is it hard to make up one's mind, it also means a decision made may quickly be undone. "Don't be so wishy-washy Charlie Brown."
While I personally acknowledge I sometimes have trouble making a simple decision, seeing where I may compromise principles is much more subtle. Often, I have to pray for discernment to see what is the Truth - God's Truth - and not what the world says is "good, right and edifying."
We live in a culture that does not honor being humble, thinking better of others than ourselves, and not indulging our every whim and desire. In a world that says, "You deserve it", God says "You deserve better than what you want. Have you considered what I want for YOU?" God's ways are better, yet we see what is immediate and easy.
Rising above that default mode isn't easy, but it can be done, but usually only with God's help and strength. And what does that mean? More unpopular words - submission and humility.
Today, seek Truth and God's single minded focus for His great love for you. "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." (James 4:8)